Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe
Got more than one super candidate for a position? Don’t be fooled by appearances. Some people just don’t have a sense of style. You can change appearances by establishing a dress code and watching it closely. Look for desire instead. If I have two people vying for a position, and I can’t decide, the one who wants it most is the one who gets it, every time. Sheer desire can carry a person a long way in life. Candidates with desire will work harder and achieve more. They have purpose that you can neither enhance nor diminish. Capture it and give them an opportunity to make something of themselves, and your practice, along the way.
Finding the Best Candidates
By far, my two preferred methods of finding good people are referrals and the local jobs ministry. Every single advisor, staff member, and professional on our team came from one of these two sources, from the operations manager and the controller to the attorney and the receptionist. Looking for that next new team member? Put the word out. Tell everyone you are in the market. Tell your staff, your clients, your neighbors and friends. Tell your colleagues, tell strangers, and especially tell your family. When you have occasion to discuss your standards and requirements with those who could potentially send you a referral, remind them that your recruiting decisions will be business decisions and nothing more. No nepotism and no favors.
Our local jobs ministry is run by a church in our area. Each Wednesday morning, around 500 out of work job seekers gather for an uplifting talk, testimonies of people who have found jobs through the ministry, individual career counseling, and training in résumé writing and interviewing skills. Toward the end of the program, local employers take the stage and give brief descriptions of positions they are looking to fill. Interested candidates form a line to the side of the meeting hall and do a recruiting form of speed dating with the employers. Employers can have short talks with candidates, collect résumés, exchange business cards, and schedule formal interviews. We have hired no less than 7 of our current staff members through this ministry. It delivers. Find one in your neck of the woods and check it out.
Working with Family
I once fired my mother-in-law. We are great friends to this day, but she wasn’t right for the position. If you hire people close to you (like family and friends), make sure they understand that you are running a business, not a social network where they will have special privileges. You are prepared to “un-friend” them at the first clear indication that you’ve made a mistake in hiring them. It doesn’t mean you want to end the personal relationship. In fact, make sure before you hire someone close to you that the person understands that your personal relationship is more important to you than the business relationship. If the person won’t be able to handle being fired, and the personal relationship will likely suffer casualty, don’t make the hire in the first place. Pass.
People say ‘never work with family.’ Nonsense. Family can be some of the best hires you will ever make. They know they can trust you, and their interests are aligned with yours. My brother worked for me for 5 years and did a terrific job. My father in law joined one of our businesses when he retired from a 30+ year career with a single employer. He was amazing. My cousin has been here for 6 years, and is still going strong. He’s been promoted 3 times and now runs our business.
Breaking Up is Hard to Do
The first time it glances across the edge of your consciousness that you should fire someone, that is when you should. When you keep someone on too long, you destroy the morale in your office. Your staff know who the slackers are. They know who the incompetents are. They know who’s looking out for their own interests and ignoring yours. And, they will resent it if you don’t take swift action. Trying to rehabilitate staff members rarely works. Once the attitude has left the building, the concert is over.
Lastly, don’t feel guilty for firing someone. When you let someone go, you open the door for someone else. Someone loses a job, but someone else gains a job. Income stops flowing to one household, but starts flowing to another household. It is a zero sum game. The person who lost the job is now freed up to find the perfect position. You’ve done the person a favor, your staff will love you, and you will finally get the person you really need. Everybody wins.